I love the quote. It takes as much energy to be kind, as it does to be unkind. It reminds me of a song;
“Isn’t it a pity
Now, isn’t it a shame
How we break each other’s hearts
And cause each other pain
How we take each other’s love
Without thinking anymore
Forgetting to give back
Isn’t it a pity
Some things take so long
But how do I explain
When not too many people
Can see we’re all the same
And because of all their tears
Their eyes can’t hope to see
The beauty that surrounds them.” ~ “Isn’t It a Pity”, George Harrison.